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    8/12/2009

    何必

    听到一个不远不近、不年老也不年轻的朋友的故事,脑子里就是这两个字冒出来。

    老妈去劝了人家一个下午加半个晚上,老爸前两天参加了一个葬礼,说这时候说什么都多余,去趟火葬场回来就什么都想明白了。

    这个笑话有点黑。不过确实是,成功的人太多了,轻松的人太少。

    FB同学说,人近四十,看着背后的来路越来越模糊,面前的去路却越来越清晰,就发现自己自由了,知道自己要的是什么了。跟别人或跟身外之物扯不清的人,多半是不知道自己要啥。

    我很羡慕他把每天过得浓墨重彩,心底里却是云淡风轻。

    能把事情玩得转是孔孟,把事情玩转之后再小小地鄙视一下这种入世的能力,就是老庄。这样的人,有时候让人觉得舒服得欠扁,有时候还是让人羡慕的紧。

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    Yuan Gaowrote:
    老蒋同学,我发现你真的是升段位了。
    Aug. 22
    zhihao jiangwrote:
    大家都在迷惑中,被色迷,也被空迷。
    Aug. 19
    yue yangwrote:
    都有道理
    Aug. 16
    Yuan Gaowrote:
    也有道理的。
    Aug. 16
    Qiqi Qiuwrote:
    我觉得也不算晚啦,真的要是很年轻就看透了,而身边的人都在迷惑中,日子过得岂不是很无趣?
    Aug. 14
    Yuan Gaowrote:
    77,那你说按照古人的平均寿命,四十不惑是不是有点晚了阿?

    老蒋,您老人家是真的难得糊涂,就算偶尔小发烧一下,也没什么不好!
    Aug. 13
    zhihao jiangwrote:
    “跟别人或跟身外之物扯不清的人,多半是不知道自己要啥。“ 这句话说的很好!

    最近常被一个好朋友提醒,说我有点失去自我,在你的博客里面谢谢她~
    Aug. 12
    Qiqi Qiuwrote:
    所以人家说四十不惑呀!
    Aug. 12

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